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THINKING by Walter D. Wintle
If you think you are beaten, your are
If you think you dare not, you don't
If you'd like to win, but think you can't
It's almost a cinch you won't.
If you think you'll lose, you're lost
For out in the world we find
Success begins with a fellow's will
It's all in the state of mind.
If you think you're outclassed, you are
You've got to think high to rise
You've got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize!
Life's battles don't always go
To the stronger or faster man
But sooner or later, the man who wins
Is the one who thinks he can.
Ladder of Achievement
100% - I did.
90% - I will.
80% - I can.
70% - I think I can.
60% - I might.
50% - I think I might.
40% - What is it?
30% - I wish I could.
20% - I don't know how.
10% - I can't.
0% - I won't.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the best of everything they have.
Promise Yourself...
To be so strong that nothing can
disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness and
Prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel
that there is something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything
And to make your optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for
the best and expect only
the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the
success of others, as you
are
about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past
and press on to the greater
achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance
at all times and give every
living creature You meet a smile.
To give so much time to the
improvement of yourself that
you have
no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry,
too noble for anger,
too strong for fear and too happy
to permit the presence of trouble.
KEEP THE POSITIVE THOUGHTS GOING
You are somebody special. It's okay to make a mistake. If it's to be, it's up to me. Go for It!!!God
Loves You!!!Party time.If you really want a friend you need to be one. Just do it!!!What a man thinketh is what he becomes.
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten. Remember...You can if you think you
can. Say something nice about somebody behind their back. If you say you can or if you say you can't, either way you're right.
A positive person takes a crisis and turns it into winds of opportunity. Anyone can quit...it takes a winner to keep trying.
A winner says, "I fell" a loser says "someone pushed me". A winner makes commitments. Losers make promises. Obstacles are
created in the mind and can be overcome. I can if I think a can. A winner says "Let's find out" a loser says "who cares".
To be a winner you must believe in yourself when no one else does. Give a friend a pat on the back--let them know you really
appreciate them. Don't worry.....be happy. Mistakes are good, they help us grow and teach us what we need to know. Always
look at what you have instead of whaqt you don't have. Dreams do come true if you believe in them. A smile is a frown turned
upside down. It's in the heart that makes a person rich. Life is like a rubberband..you may be stretched to the limit, but
you'll always come back together. If you think school or work is boring, try sitting in the unemployment office. If you aim
at nothing...you are sure to hit it. Sharing is the art of living! The road to a friend's house is never long. Success is
to make someone happy.Happiness comes from within. Learn to love yourself. Nothing builds confidence and reassurance like
a word of praise. Keep within your heart,a place where dreams can go. Life is like a game, it has rules. Count your blessings,
count them one by one. Be grateful for all the special people in your life. Love feeds everybody. There are no limits for
the journeys of the mind. The best person to be is yourself. The most precious possessions in life are not things. A smile
is the key to the heart. A true friend is a friend forever. If we learn from losing, we become winners in the end. Don't wait
for your ship to come in, swim out to it. People will turn out just the way you think they will. Attitude isn't just a little
thing..it's everything. Fear is the absence of faith. The only way to grow is to accept change. What's popular isn't always
right and what's right isn't always popular.
More Favorite Sayings
ACCEPT DIFFERENCES
BE KIND DREAM
EXPRESS THANKS FORGIVE GIVE FREELY HARM NO ONE IMAGINE MORE KEEP CONFIDENCES LOVE
TRULY MASTER SOMETHING NURTURE
HOPE OPEN YOUR MIND PACK LIGHTLY QUELL RUMORS RECIPROCATE SEEK WISDOM
TOUCH HEARTS UNDERSTAND
VALUE TRUTH WIN GRACIOUSLY
YEARN FOR PEACE
ZEALOUSLY SUPPORT A
WORTHY CAUSE
BECAUSE NICE MATTERS
YOU CAN NEVER GO DOWN THE DRAIN.
(Mr. Rogers)
ALLOW MIRACLES.
NOT ALL WHO WANDER ARE LOST.
IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITIES.
FRIENDSHIP
The comfort of
feeling safe with a person,
having neither to weigh thoughts
nor measure words, but pouring
them out, just as they are -
chaff and grain together -
certain that a faithful hand
will take and sift them,
keep what is worth keeping
and with the breath of kindness
blow away the rest.
EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY
A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. What food might this contain?"
The mouse wondered - - -he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning : There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap
in the house!"
The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr.Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but
it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."
The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The pig sympathized, but said, I am so very sorry, Mr.Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you
are i n my prayers."
The mouse turned to the cow and said "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The cow said,
"Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose."
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap . . . alone.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer's
wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.
The snake bit the farmer's wife.The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever.
Everyone knows you treat a fever - with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's
main ingredient.
But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer
butchered the pig.
The farmer's wife did not get well; she died.
So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.
So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you, remember ---- when one of us is
threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another
and make an extra effort to encourage one another.
LET EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER HELPED YOU OUT KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE.
REMEM BER. . . . . . EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY; OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON.
One of the best things to hold onto in this world is a FRIEND
The Mayonnaise Jar & The Cup of Coffee
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise
jar... and the cup of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he
picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar. He proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the
jar was full. They agreed that it was. The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook
the jar slightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He again asked the students if the jar was
full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He
asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes". The professor then produced two cups of
coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents of both cups into the jar, effectively filling the empty space
between the sand. The students laughed. "Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that
this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things -your God, family, your children, health, your friends,
and favorite passions- things that if everything else was lost and only these things remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else - the small
stuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes
for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important
to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical
checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Work on your spiritual life. There will always be time to clean the house and fix
the car. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. the professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with
a friend."
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Celebrate You!
You are worth celebrating.
You are worth everything.
You are unique.
In the whole world there is only one you.
There is only one person with
your talents
your experiences
your gifts.
No one can take your place!
God created only one you, precious in his sight.
You have immense potential
to love, to care, to grow, to sacrifice
If you believe in yourself.
It doesn't matter your age, or your color,
or whether your parents loved you or not.
(maybe they wanted to but couldn't.)
Let that go. It belongs to the past.
You belong to the now.
It doesn't matter what your have done,
the mistakes you've made.
You are okay. You are accepted. You are loved
in spite of yourself.
So love yourself, and nourish the seed within you.
Celebrate you!
Begin now. Start anew. Give yourself a new birth. Today!
You are you, and that is all you need to be.
You are here today and gone tomorrow.
But today...
Today can be a new beginning, a new thing, a new life.
You cannot deserve this new life.
It is freely given.
That is the miracle called God.
So celebrate the miracle...
and celebrate you!
WINNERS ARE PEOPLE LIKE YOU.Winners take chances. Like everyone else, they fear failing, but they refuse to let fear
control them. Winners don't give up. when life gets rough,they hang in until the going gets better. Winners are flexible.
they realize there is more than one way and are willing to try others. Winners know they are not perfect. they respect their
weaknesses while making the most of their strengths. Winners fall, but they don't stay down. They stubbornly refuse to let
a fall keep them from climbing...Winners don't blame fate for their failures not luck for their successes. Winners accept
responsibility for their lives. Winners are positive thinkers who see good in all things. From the ordinary, they make the
extraordinary. Winners believe in the path they have chosen even when it's hard, even when others can't see where they are
going. Winners are patient. They know a goal is only as worthy as the effort that's required to achieve it. Winners are people
like you. They make this world a better place to be. -
by Nancye Sims
Right now at this very minute-----------
someone is very proud of you
someone is thinking of you
someone cares about you
someone misses you
someone wants to talk to you
someone wants to be with you
someone hopes you aren't in trouble
someone is thankful for the support you have provided
someone wants to hold your hand
someone hopes everything turns out all right
someone wants you to be happy
someone wants you to find them
someone is celebrating your successes
someone wants to give you a gift
someone think you ARE a gift
someone hopes you are not too cold, or too hot
someone wants to hug you
someone loves you
someone wants to lavish you with small gifts
someone admires your strength
someone is thinking of you and smiling
someone wants to be your shoulder to cry on
someone wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun
someone thinks the world of you
someone wants to protect you
someone would do anything for you
someone wants to be forgiven
someone is grateful for your forgiveness
someone wants to laugh with you about old times
someone remembers you and wishes you were there
someone needs to know that your love is unconditional
somebody values your advice
someone wants to tell you how much they care
someone wants to stay up watching old movies with you
someone wants to share their dreams with you
someone wants to hold you in their arms
someone wants YOU to hold them in your arms
someone treasures your spirit
someone wishes they could STOP time because of you
someone can't wait to see you
someone wishes that things didn't have to change
someone loves you for who you are
someone loves the way you make them feel
someone wants to be with you
someone hears a song that reminds them of you
someone wants you to know they are there for you
someone is glad that you're their friend
someone wants to be your friend
someone stayed up all night thinking about you
someone is alive because of you
someone is wishing that you would notice them
someone wants to get to know you better
someone believes that you are their soul mate
someone wants to be near you
someone misses your guidance and advice
someone values your guidance and advice
someone has faith in you
someone trusts you
someone needs you to tell them this
When the power of love overcomes the love of power,
the world will know peace.
A loving person lives in a loving world...A hostile person lives in a hostile world...Therefore,
everyone you meet...is your MIRROR.
EVERYTHING I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT LIFE I LEARNED FROM NOAH'S ARK
The Woodpecker Might have to go!
One : Don't miss the boat.
Two : Remember that we are all in the same boat.
Three : Plan ahead. It wasn't raining when Noah built the Ark.
Four : Stay fit When you're 600 years old, someone may ask you to do something really big.
Five : Don't listen to critics; just get on with the job that needs to be done.
Six : Build your future on high ground.
Seven : For safety's sake, travel in pairs.
Eight : Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs.
Nine : When you're stressed, float a while.
Ten : Remember, the Ark was built by amateurs; the Titanic by professionals.
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HEALTHY PEOPLE
LIKE THEMSELVES
They handle lefe's disappointments rather well.
They have negative emotions like anger, fear, jealousy, guilt but they are not overwhelmed
by them.
They can laugh at themselves.
They give themselves permission to be imperfect when they make a mistake.
They respect themselves.
They can handle most situations that come their way.
They have a relationship with God as they see Him/Her.
They derive pleasure from simple, everyday activities.
LIKE OTHERS
They respect the differences in people.
They have a few very close personal relationships that are lasting.
They do not allow others to push them around and they are not pushers either.
They feel that they are part of a Community or Group.
They have a sense of responsibility toward their fellow man/woman.
They have the ability and desire to give Love and receive it.
They expect to trust others and be trusted by others.
They know how to forgive and to say "I'm sorry that I hurt you".
ARE ABLE TO MEET THE DEMANDS OF LIFE
They plan for the future in the here and now, but do not fear it.
They are open to new ideas.
When a problem arises, they do something about it right now.
They accept their responsibilities.
They take some time to laugh, play and have fun.
They set goals for themselves that make "sense", non "non-sense".
THEY DARE TO BE DIFFERENT.
From HUMOR HILARITY, HEALING
AND
HAPPY HYPOTHALAMI
Father Tom Walsh M.C.
Frog Race
Once upon a time there was a bunch of tiny frogs.... who arranged a running
competition.
The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower.
A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the
contestants....
The race began.... !
Honestly,no one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach
the top of the tower.
You heard statements such as:
"Oh, WAY too difficult!!"
"They will NEVER make it to the top."
or:
"Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"
The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one....
Except for those, who in a fresh tempo, were climbing higher and higher....
The crowd continued to yell, "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!"
More tiny frogs got tired and gave up...
But ONE continued higher and higher and higher....
This one wouldn't give up!
At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the
one tiny frog who, after a big effort, was the only one who reached the top!
THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog
managed to do it?
A contestant asked the tiny frog how he had found the strength to succeed
and reach the goal?
It turned out....
That the winner was DEAF!!!!
The wisdom of this story is:
Never listen to other people's tendencies to be negative or pessimistic....
because they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you -- the ones you have in your heart!
Always think of the power words have.
Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions!
Therefore:
ALWAYS be....
POSITIVE!
And above all:
Be DEAF when people tell YOU that you cannot fulfill your dreams!
Always think:
God and I can do this!
MANY SMILES BEGIN BECAUSE OF ANOTHER SMILE...
If you fall down 10 times, Stand up 11.
THE DAFFODIL PRINCIPLE
Several times my daughter had telephoned to say,
"Mother, you must come to see the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but
it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead "I will come next Tuesday", I promised a little reluctantly
on her third call. Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove
there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy
children. I delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren. "Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is
invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that
I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!" My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We
drive in this all the time, Mother." "Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and
then I'm heading for home!" I assured her. "I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage
to pick up my car." "How far will we have to drive?" "Oh...just a few blocks," Carolyn said. "But
I'll drive. I'm used to this." After several minutes, I had to ask, "Where are we going?
This isn't the way to the garage!"
"We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way
of the daffodils." "Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around." "It's all
right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."
After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side
of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow the at read, "Daffodil Garden."
We got out of the car, each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a
corner, I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone
had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain peak and it's surrounding slopes. The
flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy
white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, and saffron and butter yellow. Each different-colored
variety was planted in large groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique
hue. There were five acres of flowers. "Who did this?" I asked Carolyn. "Just one
woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well kept
A-frame house, small and modestly sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the
house. On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the
headline. The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read. The second answer was, "One
at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain." The third answer was, "Began in 1958." For
me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than
forty years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure
mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this unknown woman had forever changed
the world in which she lived. One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence,
beauty, and inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of
celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time--often just one
baby-step at time--and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When
we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish
magnificent things. We can change the world. "It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn.
"What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty years ago and
had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years? Just think what I might have been able
to achieve!" My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way. "Start
tomorrow," she said She was right. It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The
way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put
this to use today?" Use the Daffodil Principle. Stop waiting..... Until your car or
home is paid off Until you get a new car or home Until your kids leave the house Until
you go back to school Until you finish school Until you clean the house Until
you retire Until summer Until spring Until winter Until fall Until
you die.... There is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey, not a
destination. So work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, and Dance like no one's
watching.
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